Appreciating Differences

 Many years ago, I took a course on culture when I was getting a masters degree in early childhood development. The focus was learning to appreciate differences, not just tolerate them, an idea that has so many implications.

So what does that mean exactly? In the US, there are so many opportunities, it's hard to keep track of them all. Foods, Holidays, Religions, Rituals, Clothing. We're surrounded by amazing ways to embrace and enjoy our differences. 

We have Italians to thank for pizza which has become a weekly staple in most households, a delicious dish that no one had heard of until after WWll. Tacos, empanadas, sushi, stir fry, hamburgers and french fries are just a few of our favorites which were imported by immigrants who came to this country to find a better life for themselves. We've all enriched our daily lives because of their pioneering spirit.

But there's so much more. If you've ever been to an East Indian wedding, you know what an amazing experience that is. Or a Jewish wedding. The Chinese New Year is spectacular. And to think, we often have all of these opportunities nearby. And so much more. 

When I was ten years old, I went to church with my two best friends, Pam and Sylvia, who happened to be black. I was the only white person in the congregation that day, which has had a lasting impression on me. The world grew so much larger for me. I am just one dot in a world filled with billions of them. What we share is our humanity and our ability to teach each other human kindness.

I'm thankful I live in such a rich, diverse country where there are people different from me on every corner that can teach me new ways to live and enjoy life. I believe we will emerge from these trying times stronger, with greater appreciation for our fellow man and the magnificent creativity shared that has enriched our lives.